It is said that “If Draupadi (wife of Pandavs) had not spoken anything and If Sita( wife of Lord Ram) had spoken something then the battles of Mahabharat and Ramayan had not been fought”
The meaning is If you understand the epics, then you will come to know that “Andhe ka putra Andha” – statement in a taunt or anger manner by Draupadi to Duryodhan when Kauravs were on their visit to Indraprasth worked as the trigger for the whole Mahabharat battle to prove power and to snatch supremacy.
The same way , If Sita mata had at least said something while the wrong was happening around or can say while “Agni pariksha” was declared for her then the battles had not been fought for rights.
Not digging the history much but just taking some essence from it and coming to my point that ‘Words’ do have power …power in a negative or positive sense based on the words , the situation in which they are used and by whom-- to who --for whom!!
People say anger is a worst enemy but I would rather say the words told in an anger state are the real enemies.
We know some people by their words..as words are the reflection of one’s mind state / thoughts , also ‘how best you can handle your own anger’ also describes the personality you poses , the morals you follow or the spirituality you believe in.
All the time situations are not in your favor, people always not behave the way you want them to be..sometimes the negative aura takes lead role over all your positive fundas .. but still we have to watch what we say and to whom ..
It’s pretty fine to get angry and also if we find that our reason is valid and world must know that then there are plenty of ways to let people understand your thoughts and your mind state. But sometimes the message is conveyed in a wrong manner with lots of things not to be said , and the real matter diverts to the different track.
Lets make it simple …people these days are finding fashions in using ‘shift+number keys’ on their keyboards to express their anger .. but I find it total childish and I really feel horrible when I come across such kind of things , may be I am an old fashion girl with limited vocab and limited expressions to express what I think and feel !!
But , though I don’t believe in imagining first impressions or any impressions , this kind of attitude from many people really force me to correct myself in believing people and their thoughts.
Sometimes harsh words said in anger create a huge impact on the other persons’ mind and even after the apologies or dilute situations then on , the impact created by words can not be easily forgotten , and in the end it also affect the relations slowly.
We de- motivate people sometimes with our words or hurt them , no matter our intension was right or wrong the said words always leave their impressions.
I agree to the fact that life is not smooth for many , but that’s the way it is ..and that’s the way we have to live it and accept it and if one thinks that they can change the situations just by some words filled with anger ..then I would just like to smile at their thoughts !!! Dear , Watch you words , They world may change or not change because of you but surely your attitude and words will speak a lot about your angle towards life.
Value people and watch your words to create your value in their lives.
